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FIRST LOVES BLOGFEST

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Monday, May 14, 2012

Brought to you by way of Ninja Captain Alex J. Cavanaugh, the First Loves blogfest is not as romantic as the title suggests.  There are four love categories to be posted on : first film, first song/band, first book, first person.

 - First book love.  My family tells me, and I remember myself, that I've always had a love of reading.  I quickly devoured every book on my reading list for school, and couldn't wait for my parents to order/check out more books for me to read.  I was a sophomore in high school however, before I read a book that was recommended to me by a classmate, and not assigned or otherwise picked out by anyone else.  It was handed to me, with a glowing review by the friend, and was absolutely my choice to read or not.  To my surprise, I loved The White Dragon by Anne McCaffrey as much as the good friend that recommended to novel to me, and it sparked my lifelong love of the fantasy genre.

 - The same person also turned me on to the first band I remember looking for specifically.  Like books, I listened to music because it was on.  I enjoyed gospel, country, rock and disco, and had favorites in every category; but not for a specific love of the music itself.  It was what my family/friends listened to, and I love music in general.  (I'm partial to drums and piano, if you must know.)
   My introduction to Pink Floyd was different.  My friend loved the group, and sought me out specifically to share a new release.  The album was Off the Wall, renamed vol I later, and I can't honestly say I liked the group or the album at the time.  I have collected the four volume set over the years, and I still rarely listen to vol I.  But, the group became my favorite because of the enthusiasm my friend showed,  and I looked for other, prior publications to purchase, and they were the first group I purchased with my own earned income.  (BTW: Pulse 1 and 2 is my favorite Pink Floyd albums, but my favorite song of theirs is Learning to Fly.)

 - You can guess that my "first person" is the same that introduced me to both my first book and music/band love.  His name is Glen Swinney; and no, he is not my first romantic love.  But he is the first person I loved outside of my family, as a true friend.  Glen was the first person in my life to want nothing more from me than friendship; someone to talk to, to listen to him, to share life experiences.  He was the first boy I ever initiated a kiss, for no other reason than to taste him.  He was the only person who ever loved me because I existed, and not because of what I could do for/or give to him.  I hold his picture in my mind beside the dictionary definition of "life".

   -  My first movie love has nothing to do with my childhood; and if you know me at all from the blogs, you'll be rather surprised that it is a romance.  Not that it is the first movie I ever loved; but for some reason, whenever I'm in a mood, I watch Last of the Mohicans.  I tell myself its cuz of the music - yep, I bought the soundtrack - but I have to admit I just adore the movie.  Who can resist Daniel Dey; especially when he stands at the cave opening and has his "I will find you, no matter what occurs" monologue.  (No seriously, its not Enya's evocative singing, which is not a part of the original sound track.)
  No matter what is happening when I hear any reference to this movie, or the soundtrack, I have to stop everything to either watch the movie, or play the CD (which is, luckily, on my MP3 player.)  Especially the End Scene music.  This is the musical definition of "poignant" for me in any dictionary.

There it is, my submission for Alex's First Loves Blogfest.  See the linky here to visit other participants or to link your own post to the list.  Remember, its never too late to join - unless the list is closed :)

38 comments:

Angeline Trevena said...

What a lovely story about Glen. He obviously had a huge impact on your life and the person you became. Are you still in touch? Do you know where he is now?

Jamie Gibbs said...

Pink Floyd and Anne McCaffrey? Glen is pretty awesome :) My favourite Floyd album is The Division Bell - not a bad track on the entire album.

Alex J. Cavanaugh said...

Glen sounds like a cool guy. And Last of the Mohicans was an awesome film. Michael Mann is a master director.
Thanks for participating in my blogfest!

Kyra Lennon said...

Glen sounds cool. :)

I have never seen Last Of The Mochicans - I'm pretty sure that makes me weird LOL!

sydneyaaliyah said...

"You stay alive, no matter what occurs! I will find you. No matter how long it takes, no matter how far, I will find you." My favorite line of the movie. Good choice.

Danielle B. said...

These are all great first. Last of the Mohicans is classic!

Michelle Gregory said...

i have all kinds of strange memories that go with Mohicans. now i associate it with Steven Waddington. even though he's a selfish guy to start with, he redeems himself in the end.

L. Diane Wolfe said...

The White Dragon is my favorite book and the one that inspired me to write, but I didn't pick it for the blogfest.

I LOVE Pink Floyd and Learning to Fly is my favorite song!

Gossip_Grl said...

Lovely first's I enjoyed reading your posting.

Trisha said...

Great post for the blogfest, Donna - I loved your thoughts on all 4 loves!

Julie Dao said...

I STILL haven't seen "Last of the Mohicans" *blush* But the soundtrack is truly awesome. Looks like I'll have to clear some space on my movies-to-watch list :)

Andrea Teagan said...

Thanks for sharing your first loves. Glen seems like a great guy, I'm glad to hear about your friendship :) I also love Anne McCaffrey, great author!

Andrea

Donna Shields said...

That's an awesome first love. Glad to meet you.

Ella said...

Glen sounds great! I just watched the Last of the Mohicans, this weekend! lol

Great list~

Pat Hatt said...

Sounds like some great memories with your list, not sure I could pick a movie one though, as I have too many..haha

Michael Offutt, Tebow Cult Initiate said...

Thanks for sharing your firsts with us Donna. It's funny how music can forge such a powerful bond with our memories.

HWR Curator said...

Floyd! nuff said!

We all love something...right!
Jeremy [Retro-Zombie]
Howlin' Wolf Records: On-Line Magazine

Ashley Nixon said...

These are great first loves! :) I haven't seen Last of the Mohicans in a long time. lol.

Tasha Seegmiller said...

I have only seen about five minutes of Last of the Mohicans. I need to watch that at some point in my life...

Nicole said...

It sounds like Glen Swinney sure knows his stuff! -- Great that you kept him around. I never paid much attention to Pink Floyd, despite knowing a few people who think they are one of the greatest bands in music. I'm not too familiar with The White Dragon book, but I sure do LOVE me some Last of the Mohicans! I used to get that movie confused with Dances with Wolves for some reason.

Also, I like what you wrote aabout Glen where you said "the only person who ever loved me because I existed, and not because of what I could do for/or give to him."

~Nicole
Blog: The Madlab Post
@MadlabPost on Twitter

Rek said...

Glen is just the kind of person some of my best friends that includes cousins are...loving and supporting because we matter to them, in return we can only love them back and keep them in our hearts.
Last of the Mohicans was a fab movies, Daniel is awesome in most of his movies and I read the book too. I like a few songs by Pink Floyd.

Glad to have met you on this blogsphere.

Aldrea Alien said...

The White Dragon, second only to Dragonflight for me. I adore that white runt.

Kela McClelland said...

Glen sounds awesome! Pink Floyd is one of my favs. Great post :)

Cathy Olliffe-Webster said...

What a thoughtfully written post!
Funny, some of my favourite books of all time were recommended by friends. Which makes them extra nice...
And that loinclothed and feathered hunk a burning love Daniel Day Lewis in Last of the Mohicans? To die for.. seriously...

Donna Hole said...

Angelina: unfortunately, Glen died in a car wreck within weeks of our high school graduation. But he has always been in my thoughts.

Jamie; yeah, a good album. I like that the group has a theme to most of their work, and communication is a great theme for a social worker to appreciate. The opening musical is heavenly. They always had great acustics.

Alex; wouldn’t dream of missing it J

Kyra; not weird, but I hope you see it sometime.

Sydney: I know, huh?

Danielle; thanks.

Michelle; he does that :)

L Dianne; we’re like twins, yes, lol.

Thanks Gossip Girl.

Hi Trisha.

Julie; you’ll love it, I’m sure, as you are a true romantic.

Andrea; Glen was awesome, thanks.

Donna; nice to meet you too.

Ella; what a coincidence, me too.

Patt; yeah, the book and movie were hard for me to come up with only one.

Mike; I love you dude :)

Jeremy; are you incognito? Intriguing. .

Hello Ashley.

Tasha; I hope you do watch, and I’m sure you’ll enjoy.

Nicole; Pink Floyd is an acquired taste for many people :) Thanks for stopping by.

Rek; you are one of my special finds too.

Aldrea; Me too. I didn’t love dragons before Ruth.

Nice to meet you Kela :)

Cathy: yes, I love word-of-mouth recommendations. And I'm fanning myself at your Daniel Dey description :)

.....dhole

Robin said...

Last of the Mohicans-one of my all time fav. Daniel Dey, the soundtrack, beautiful NC. . .

thanks for sharing your loves!

DeniseCovey _L_Aussie said...

A great list Donna. I love the Mohicians too. A classic. I'll have to have another listen to the music after your glowing recommendation.

Isn't it amazing how our first books shape our reading likes/dislikes?

Denise

Madeleine Maddocks said...

Glen sounds lovely. I haven't read The White Dragon by Anne McCaffrey I will have to check it out.
Pink Floyd was a fav with someone I knew, but as i was into Abba I guess the two didn't seem compatible at the time, but I do appreciate them now. Great post

vic caswell (aspiring-x) said...

awww donna!!!
the way you describe your relationship with glen is just--- beautiful! :)

and last of the mohicans is a great movie (clarissa chose it too!) i DID adore the music, but it was the younger sister's love tale that got me. the moment when she jumps... one of the most powerful moments of all time in film.

Elliot Grace said...

...honesty at its very best ;)

Perhaps not your first love, but Glen will remain forever in your heart, Donna, for sharing in those experiences.

Loved it ;)

El

Stephen Tremp said...

Donna, we have something in common. Learning to Fly is my favorite Pink Floyd song, and video, too.

DEZMOND said...

I bet Glen tasted mighty fine :)

DEZMOND said...

sorry to hear, in one of the comments above, that he is no longer among us :((((

Donna K. Weaver said...

How fun! There's nothing like a friend who's your friend just because.

And I love Anne McCaffrey's books.

Heather M. Gardner said...

Sorry I'm late.
Glen sounds like a hell of a guy! Pink Floyd and Anne McCaffrey? Great picks.
I also chose Last of the Mohicans.
Wonderful movie.
Thanks for sharing with us.
Heather

Barbara said...

Great picks, thank you for sharing!

Sharing the Love!
English Speaking Zone

Donna Hole said...

Hello Robin :)

I listened again too Denise, lol.

Maddy; you're right about the compatability, but I did listen to both. I know, I've always been weird. Abba was also one of my fav's.

Thanks Vic; yeah, I cried my eyes out during that scene. It was so shocking the first time.

So true El; and thanks for stopping by. I miss you when you're away for so long; but you always return with such beautiful writing excerpts it almost makes up.

Steve: Yay :)

He did Dezzy :) And I still miss him.

Hi Donna; so glad we two agree on Anne McCaffrey :)

Hello Barbara; nice to meet you.

........dhole

Jeremy Bates said...

I really enjoy Pink Floyd. Their music is like no one eles as far as I am concerned. It is rock and yet it is relaxing and puts a person in another world free of all of the crazy complexities we all face from day to day.